life coach Archives - Marcelo Oleas

November 14 2020

Life Based On Purpose

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Are you living a life based on feelings, or are you living a life based on purpose?

So what’s the difference?

Well there are some days where we feel like we can conquer the world! And there are other days where we feel like we can barely tie our own shoes. LOL

We all have our ups and downs. It’s normal; we’re human, but this is where we need to be conscious about what we’re doing.

Life can already be like a rollercoaster ride. And if we live our life based on our feelings, that rollercoaster ride is only going to get bumpier.

We go through many stages and goals in our life. From going to school when we’re kids to climbing the ladder in our careers as adults; and so many things in between.

There are going to be days when we feel like not going to school.

There are going to be days when we feel like not going to work.

There are going to be days when we feel like not exercising.

And I can go on and on, but my point is that there are simply going to be times when we feel like not giving it our all. When we feel like not giving it our best because the reality is that feelings change.

So if we live a life solely based on feelings, how are we suppose to accomplish our goals? Most likely we won’t. But if we live a life based on purpose; we now have something powerful. Something so powerful that every time we feel like not doing something, it is going to be that reminder that kicks us into gear. It is going to help us flick that switch, to kick those negative feelings to the curb and fill us up with those positive feelings again; ready to take action.

So stop living a life based on feelings.

Focus on your purpose and live your life based on that purpose!

October 21 2020

Words Are Like Water

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Would you agree that words are a lot like water?

Water can create life, it can create electricity, it’s an essential part of our health and we use it every day.

But water can also create massive damage, destruction, and sometimes even death.

So how are words a lot like water?

Well, words can be very beautiful and fill us with enthusiasm and life, but words can also be very mean and harmful and drain the enthusiasm and life right out of us.

And just like water, we use words every day. It’s how we communicate with others, and just as important it’s how we communicate with ourselves.

We may not have control over what people say to us, but we sure have control over what we say to others, and to ourselves.

Now why is that important??

Well, words create images in our mind.

These images impact our emotions.

These emotions impact our actions.

And our actions generate consequences.

Therefore our words play an integral part in the consequences we deal with in life.

Harness the power of words to nurture and create beautiful consequences, not consequences that will lead to regret.